I’d like to show you a language pattern that can help you in several ways. If you’re selling something and your customer has an objection, you can use this pattern to get him or her off the objection and onto the benefits.

If you are debating someone and they are stuck on a point you’d rather not talk about, you can use this pattern.

If someone is complaining to you, and you’d like to change the subject, use this pattern.

As you can see, this pattern has a wide variety of uses, especially in conversation-style communication such as face-to-face, emails, chats and more.

Here’s the pattern:

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Here’s a technique you can use to alter someone’s personality. It’s called, “Embedding a Part.” It’s quite easy to use and very effective.

If you have done any studying of NLP, you would have come across the concept of internal “parts.” These parts can affect your mood, beliefs and behavior. Parts can be good or bad (depending on the meaning you give them). So on the positive side, you can have a creative part of you, a confident part of you. On the negative side, you might have a shy part or an anger part.

What sort of part or parts would you like to give somebody else? How about Confidence? Intelligent buyer? Fascination? Connection? There must be hundreds of different parts you can use.

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When we apply NLP in therapeutic interventions, and after we use a “technique” (Swish, Anchoring, etc.), we often add–as the last few steps–a Test and a Future Pace. With a test, we bring back the triggering behavior or thought and see if what we did works. For example, if we are using the Visual Squash [...]

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Conveying Authority and Social Proof (even if you have none)

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